All my life till now, many people have told me this – “Bhuvanesh, your interests are very scattered. Why don’t you fix something you love and do that thing very well and be successful in that field?” And every time I heard this, I either told the other person or wanted to tell them that... Continue Reading →
The Idea of You It's been a long time and I still can't believe that I even thought of writing something like this. I don't even remember the last time I thought about you. Human mind is so strange isn't it - All those memories, and after all that effort I had put in to... Continue Reading →
This is a writeup I wrote last year for Madras Day. "சென்ட்ரல் ரயில் நிலையத்தில் ரயில்களின் எண்ணிக்கை மெரினாக் கடற்கரையின் தூரம் கூவ ஆற்றுப் படுக்கையில் குடிசைகளின் எண்ணிக்கை. தினம் நடக்கும் போராட்டங்களில் பங்குபெறும் மக்கள் எண்ணிக்கை தினம் தினம் பேருந்தில் பயணிக்கும் மக்களின் எண்ணிக்கை.... என்று.... அனைத்தையும் அளந்து கூற முடியும். வெளியூர் சென்று ரயிலில் வரும் போது, சென்ட்ரல் நிலையத்திற்கு... Continue Reading →
In any kind of relationship, whether it is with your best bud from school or a new colleague in your office, it is always going to be hard if you are going to have a mind-set which is definitive about everything you share with people. Such people are always noticed defining things, for example,... Continue Reading →
Look, maybe contrary to what others say, sometimes you might feel that the "love" others express to you, is a weakness as you tend to reciprocate more of it and that the "hatred" people show towards you, is what strengthens you. You aren't wrong and you needn't be totally right. I have been there too.... Continue Reading →
Are we afraid to think? Or is it because of a blind egoistic trust we have on our statements that we don’t find a need to think an inch more?
Just when we feel that we have got it all sorted out, this uncertain life of us, throws at us some situations, people, etc and disrupts the clarity.. It's like the popular quote, "When you find the answer, life changes it's question". Out of the blue you meet someone, you get attached to them, time creates illusions and unsettlement, you start to feel insecure, you start missing them and your mind starts to over think. Most of us have gone through this phase of 'insecurity'. Such phases are one of the best learning curves in our lives. So What exactly does a person feel or think during those insecure phases? I have listed down some of the "What-ifs and Maybes that run in an insecure mind"
"No matter how strong you're mentally, you can never be the shoulder to lean upon for everyone you care and it is a harsh truth we all have to accept." No matter how much time you invest in being that person for some people, after a certain point, you'll feel as if all you're... Continue Reading →
I don't know if I am the only one who feels this way or not. So for example, let's say you read and liked a post I wrote about a particular subject or you are interested in something I told you before (say, a film director/movie/any celebrity etc). Now, it's not necessary that I... Continue Reading →